Ladies love to accessorize, that is a fact of life, and one people should live with. Especially married men or men who are living with women, this is something they need to understand and accept, and something that they should not fight about because they will never win that fight. That is why women need more closet space, to put all their accessories in. Some men can’t fathom a woman’s need for six pairs of black shoes. To them, black is black is black and they just can’t understand the difference between a pair and another. But for ladies, this truly makes sense. A flat black pair of shoes is certainly different from a pair with an inch of heel or two, even if the two pairs are exactly the same color and shade of black. Certain occasions just call for specific kinds of shoes and if men cannot understand this, then just accept it as a fact of life that they cannot fight and change. The same is true for bags and other fashion accessories. A black leather bag is different from a black velvet bag and certainly different from a black fabric bag. Sometimes a lady will prefer her black leather bag, and on other days will want a more casual fabric bag. Same is true for accessories, like cufflinks. She will sometimes prefer silver cufflinks, and there are days when she’d want designer cufflinks. She’d want to go elegant one day and don a pair of 9 square abalone silver cufflinks, and other days she’d want to go playful with a pair displaying Homer Simpson’s face. That’s just the way life is and the faster one accepts this, the better it will be.